People often assume...
that conflict is always negative... This is not true! People are inherently different, and conflict simply happens when those differences come to light. Viewing conflict in this way can help us maximize the possible positive outcomes of the problem at hand. Equipped with a conflict resolution process, people can explore and understand those differences, and use them to interact in a more positive, productive way.
At the end of this workshop, participants should:
- Be able to adapt the process for all types of conflicts;
- Be able to break out parts of the process and use those tools to prevent conflict;
- Be able to use basic communication tools, such as the agreement frame and open questions;
- Be able to use basic anger and stress management techniques.
WHAT IS CONFLICT?
The Random House Dictionary defines conflict as, "to come into collision or disagreement; be contradictory, at variance, or in opposition; clash."
Some examples of conflict can include:
- Two sales representatives are arguing over who gets the latest customer
- A team of employees is upset with their manager over a recent scheduling change
- A group of managers cannot decide who gets the latest project assignment (Although we are going to focus primarily on workplace conflicts in this workshop, the tools covered can also be used in personal situations as well.)
- Conflict can also be healthy. Think about how conflict will increase motivation and competitiveness in these scenarios.
- Two companies vie for the top market share of a particular product
- Several sales teams work to get first place
- Six hockey teams work towards winning a championship
- These types of drivers can result in greater success, whether "success" means a better product, better teamwork, better processes, lower prices, trophies, or medals. Remember, everyone experiences conflict, but how you deal with it, is what matters.
WHAT IS CONFLICT RESOLUTION?
The term "conflict resolution" simply means how you solve conflicts. Although there are many processes available, we have developed one process that you can adapt for any situation. You will even be able to use these tools to prevent conflict and to help others work through conflict.
Some common conflict resolution terms include:
- Mediation: It is a process to resolve differences, conducted by an impartial third party.
- Mediator: In impartial person who conducts a process to resolve differences.
- Dispute Resolution: The name given to any process aimed at resolving differences between two parties.
- Apparent Conflict: A situation where the conflict is in the open.
- Hidden Conflict: A situation where the conflict is not in the open.
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